Despite Breaking My Leg, I Don't Regret Skiing Alone
DENVER (CBS4) - We take issue with doing things alone. It's considered weird, or sad, or embarrassing for some people. And I'm not just saying this -- a new study set to publish in the Journal of Consumer Research investigated the reasons why people are anxious about it.
However, the report also said that those who go out solo enjoy themselves just as much as if they were with others.
I've moved around over the past several years: across the sea to Copenhagen, across the country to Alaska, most recently landing in Colorado, and I've always done it alone. Most of the time I don't know a single person at my destination, which means all the exploration needs to be done unaccompanied.
In Alaska I'd go fishing by myself, in Chicago I'd take myself on a date to Navy Pier, and now in Colorado I hike or ski alone. As the study suggests, I thoroughly enjoy myself each time.
Also as the study suggests, most people are baffled at my solo excursions. Going out alone is largely perceived as a bold move, daring because of the uncertainty that awaits your single self. Friends think I'm crazy, it's a wild thing to do. My family probably thinks I'm just weird and can't make friends.
But why should it be considered odd to spend time with yourself? And when the alternative is to stay home alone because there's no one to go with, that can't be healthy.
Being solo shouldn't be limiting. In fact, it's freeing. That single seat on the roller coaster? Yours. The last spot in the elevator ride up to Hancock Tower? Only you can fit. Bartender messes up a drink order? Cheers to a freebie!
It's also a great way to make friends, whether a buddy on the slopes or a fisherman who shares his catch. You're actually more approachable as an individual than in a group, the study says, and you're not sticking out for everyone to judge like you think.
Sure, the last time I adventured alone I broke my leg skiing in a terrain park. But solo excursions don't have to end badly! As a matter of fact, I met my significant other by going to a community meeting…alone.
Although difficult to do, once you go somewhere by yourself, it turns out great. Research proves it.
So get over your fear of judgment and go see that movie no one else is interested in!
